Lovelorn: lovesick.

Lovelorn is a state of unhappiness because the person you love does not love you while lovesick is a state of inability to think clearly or behave in a sensible way because you are in love with somebody, especially somebody who is not in love with you; some people mistake this for heartbreak.

From your own analysis, you have more to offer than the other whom he/she prefers to you. You can foresee pain, disappointment and sorrow in that relationship he/she opted for and you wonder why some people prefer those that deceive them to honest ones like you. In some cases, you suffer inferiority complex especially if your opponent is better than you are socio-economically, academically, morally, etc.

But I tell you, failure is an opportunity to start all over again, this time more intelligently. Note your mistakes and learn from them, be encouraged the more when you lose because you avail yourself of that opportunity to make some corrections. The downfall of a man is not the end of his life and determination is the key to success.

Most importantly, love thrives when the interest is mutual; if you use money, fame, sex or whatever to win ones love, the relationship will be based on that. Just remove pretense and be yourself wherever you find yourself; allow love to take a natural course and you’ll enjoy your relationship while it also serves as a model for others.

Heartbreak

He stole my virginity and jilted me…she left me for a wealthier man…after all I’ve done for him, he married another girl…you just woke up to call it quits, just like that? ...many relationships have experienced overwhelming sorrows like these and heartbreak has come to be attached to love but its appalling how people can break your heart and you still love them with the pieces.

Some will advice you to run a parallel relationship so you can fall back one if the other fails; others will ask you to love with your head and not with your heart to avoid heartbreak; that’ll probably leave you with a head break.

I’ll tell you something; people break your heart because you misunderstand what love is all about. I have or do something that appeals to you, so you love me? Nonsense! Love is not based on anything; else it’s no longer agape in nature.

Quote me anytime, any day; if you go into a relationship bearing in mind what you’ll do for it not what you’ll make of it, you’ll never suffer heartbreak. Heartbreak is a result of disappointment or expectation cut short; worst of all, when your previous painstaking sacrifice was for that expectation. It shouldn’t be a give and take affair so give what you can afford to lose. I love you.

Briefing

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Promiscuity

Promiscuity confirms that economic theory which states that human wants are insatiable; both men and women are guilty of this. One thing about this is the fact that it is natural and one has to go an extra mile to rid oneself of it.
It has ruined many marriages and relationships, it still wrecks havoc and it will keep doing what its best at. Take it or leave it, this is the worst thing you can do to your spouse and yourself. This moral decadence has eaten deep to a threatening level, into our societal fabric that no one can hardly be vouched for.
That notwithstanding, the good news is that will-power is also natural only that you need to tame it if you are to utilize it. Your spouse may lack what you seek outside; nobody is perfect of course, so definitely your spouse has something you can't find outside. Be contended with what you have, put your will-power to action and trust God for His guidance. You can do it.

Lovelorn: lovesick.

Lovelorn is a state of unhappiness because the person you love does not love you while lovesick is a state of inability to think clearly or behave in a sensible way because you are in love with somebody, especially somebody who is not in love with you; some people mistake this for heartbreak.
From your own analysis, you have more to offer than the other whom he/she prefers to you. You can foresee pain, disappointment and sorrow in that relationship he/she opted for and you wonder why some people prefer those that deceive them to honest ones like you. In some cases, you suffer inferiority complex especially if your opponent is better than you are socio-economically, academically, morally, etc.
But I tell you, failure is an opportunity to start all over again, this time more intelligently. Note your mistakes and learn from them, be encouraged the more when you lose because you avail yourself of that opportunity to make some corrections. The downfall of a man is not the end of his life and determination is the key to success.
Most importantly, love thrives when the interest is mutual; if you use money, fame, sex of whatever to win one's love, the relationship will be based on that. Just remove pretense and be yourself wherever you find yourself; allow love to take a natural course and you’ll enjoy your relationship while it also serves as a model for others.

Heartbreak

'He stole my virginity and jilted me…"she left me for a wealthier man…"after all I’ve done for him, he married another girl…"you just woke up to call it quits, just like that? ...'many relationships have experienced overwhelming sorrows like these and heartbreak has come to be attached to love but its appalling how people can break your heart and you still love them with the pieces thereof.
Some will advice you to run a parallel relationship so you can fall back one if the other fails; others will tell you to love with your head and not with your heart to avoid heartbreak; that will probably leave you with a headbreak instead(amusing).
I’ll tell you something; people break your heart because you misunderstand what love is all about. I have or do something that appeals to you, so you love me? Nonsense! Love is not based on anything; else it’s no longer agape in nature.
Quote me anytime, any day; if you go into a relationship bearing in mind what you’ll do for it not what you’ll make of it, you’ll never suffer heartbreak. Heartbreak is a result of disappointment or expectation cut short; worst of all, when your previous painstaking sacrifice was for that expectation. It shouldn’t be a give and take affair so give what you can afford to lose. I love you.

Agape love

“If I had the gift of being able to speak in other languages without learning them and could speak in every language there is in all of heaven and earth but didn’t love others, I would only be making noise. If I had the gift of prophecy and knew all about what is going to happen in the future, knew everything about everything, but didn’t love others, what good would it do?...
Love is patient and kind, never jealous or envious, never boastful, never haughty or selfish or rude. Love does not demand its own way. It is not irritable or touchy. It does not hold grudges and will hardly even notice when others do it wrong. It is never glad about injustice, but rejoices whenever truth wins out…love goes on forever…and the greatest of these is love.”
1 Corinthian 13